I remember being 8 years old, sitting in front of the tv completely fixated on and enamoured with She-Ra: Princess of Power. I’m not sure if it was her beauty, her strength, or the idea that she could totally take care of herself, but she was special… my superhero.
For those that don’t remember, She-Ra is the alter ego of Princess Adora and the twin sister of He-Man. She was abducted as a baby and grew up as Adora… a seemingly normal girl (not unlike myself of course…!). When she discovers her power and transforms into She-Ra her destiny is uncovered and this normal girl becomes “The Most Powerful Woman in the Universe”.
But She-Ra was more than just a warrior. She was nurturing in nature (as opposed to her brother’s more aggressively-based powers), was empathic, understanding and was able to communication with animals.
Not a bad role model to have, right?
I don’t think that I’ve thought about She-Ra since I was 12 or so. Today I walked by a Lululemon bag that said “Unwrap your Super Powers” and of course she came to mind. Which led me to the question: what happened when I started growing up that I forgot that I once had this character that I dreamt about being and perhaps even truly believed in at some level? Did I replace it with something else or did I just stop imagining?
I’m not sure what the answer is, but something tells me that it’s a combination of both. I have a feeling we are encouraged to get “realistic”. Do we stop believing in the magic of transformation and do we cease to see our own unlimited possibilities? Maybe we start to succumb to the societal assumption that we can only hope for that which our parents had, only experience 50% of our marriages being successful and grind our way through our 30′s,40′s and 50′s in hope of security only to realize that we forgot to truly live life along the way.
And while I had a relatively awesome childhood I still struggle to see past some of my own limiting beliefs about myself. I notice that I sometimes buckle to my own insecurities and the more I do it, the more normal it becomes. Many of the people around me do the same thing and it becomes so engrained in who I become that I stop seeing that it is not true, it’s just the reality that I’ve surrounded myself with.
See, the thing about She-Ra was that I let her into a place in my imagination that defied my own reality. And I think I knew deep down that I didn’t have the magic that would transform Spirit into Swift Wind (a talking winged unicorn), but it opened up a part of my mind to start believing in things outside of my own experience, circumstances and existence.
One of the most unusual and creative sport psych tools I have ever heard about was with the sliding team prior to the 2010 Olympics. They individually met with a Shaman who helped them connect with their own spirit animals. John Montgomery, skeleton Gold Medallist had a turtle. With the symbol placed on his helmet, he visualized the turtle sliding with him down the track- smoothly, effortlessly and quickly…
I think there is something about stepping outside of what we consider our own limits, our own bodies and our own minds. In times where our inner excellence is tested, a fear is being realized or a limit is being set on us, what if we connect to our own inner superhero? Whether it is one that already exists that possesses all of the qualities that we yearn to have, or perhaps one that we create on our own, why not step into their world, even just for a moment, and see if solutions appear and goals are met. AND at the same time creatively play in this world!
So in my life, She-Ra has been rediscovered. I see her differently now than I used to. Where I used to take her battles at face value, I now see how similar they are to my own. I see how she never uses her magic sword on the offensive, but only to defend herself if need be. She never hurts human beings, and she always finds time to connect with family and animals. Sure, she is beautiful, but it’s no longer about her long blonde hair- her beauty is more about how she finally knows who she is. And lastly, where I used to notice what she was doing, I now notice how she was doing it. There is an art to the way she moves and the way she handles a challenge.
So what is my Super Power? Today it is unleashed imagination! I’m not sure that Swift Wind will show up on my doorstep, but the fact that I don’t know what will show up means I’m on the right path…
Leah is a professional beach volleyball player, motivational speaker, trainer, crossfitter and designer. She is based out of California but spends much of her offseason in Vancouver, BC. She loves animals, randomness, friends and family, being inspired, stunts, and singing (badly) to the Dixie Chicks! Her dislikes include raw tomatoes, anyone flaky and mustard on her hotdog.
Her fun, inspirational, heartfelt blog can be found at: http://leahallinger.wordpress.com/
She is currently training for the 2010 AVP and FIVB world tour, designing sexy swim-wear for active women with www.vivvos.com.